“The happiest people don’t have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything they have. Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God."
~Unknown~

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Unleash the power of your mind

For my friend...  you know who you are...  a few thoughts since last we spoke:

Everything you need to make your life what you want it to be is already deep within your mind and in your core. Just do it... what are you waiting for?  How many more days will you waste repeating the same behaviors over and over again?

It's simple.
Simply choose.

Simply choose today to use your mind for what you need and want in your life. Get rid of the garbage that clutters your head and your heart. Know yourself well enough to understand that you are in control.  If things are not right in your life, you are not a victim.  It's your world, we just live in it. Don't let others trigger you.  Take back your power and don't give it away again.  It's yours... protect *you*.

Let me repeat this:
YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM.

Harsh words?  Maybe.  But sometimes the truth hurts.  If I didn't care about your health, I'd just let it go.  But I do care.  I want to see you healthy and happy and whole.  I don't want to hear lies though.  Don't lie to me and definitely don't lie to yourself.  I want to hear how your world is at peace and you have this wonderful life full of love and joy and everything you ever hoped it would be.  And I want it to be real ~ the truth. That is all I have ever wanted for you.  It is all I have ever hoped for...  for you.

Stop with that ass-inine "it's not my fault" mentality.  It will suck the life right out of you. You are the reason for how your life is right now and from my seat you have everything you could ever wish for!  What is it that you think you're lacking?

You also have the solution if you think things are wrong somehow. You have to right yourself.  There is not another person alive who can 'right' you or your wrongs.  There is no such thing as Cinderella or Prince Charming.  There is not another person who can come and save your day.  They don't exist.  It's all on *you*.  It's all up to you.

Get rid of the lies you tell yourself. Stop blaming others for your unhappiness, anger, hurt, bitterness, and whatever else you lug around day in and day out.  Why do you burden yourself with unnecessary thoughts and negative feelings?  What does that do for you?  Why do you hold onto things like a dog with a bone?  Drop them... free yourself.

Start accepting your part in what has happened to you. Start owning your *world*.  Take off those rose-colored glasses that keep the responsibility for your life and your attitude off of your shoulders when you're trying to dish out blame to others. You are not that weak.  Stop telling yourself you cannot change what is wrong within your life. Stop thinking that everyone else has to change for you to be happy.  They don't.  *YOU* do.

Think about this...  maybe there is nothing wrong at all. Can you accept that you might be wrong thinking there is?  Do you always have to be right?  What's the point of that?

The only control you have in life is over *your* own actions and reactions.  So choose today.  Choose your actions.  Stop looking for a hidden agenda.  Stop watching for something that may happen.  How is that living? Stop worrying about the "if's" and simply breathe, embrace your life, and start flying free.

Choose to follow what's good and right in your core and get rid of the rest. Get rid of the ugliness inside and replace it with something beautiful.  Stop.  Just stop. You only have one life. It's this moment in time that counts.  Not yesterday.  Not tomorrow.  Not even today.  Just now.

There is nothing holding you back ~ except you.
Choose life.
Choose love.
Choose living.
Choose *you*.

Walk away from the rest...  you won't miss the negative once it's gone.
All you will feel is relief that is finally over.  Trust me.
Free your mind.  Free your core.  Free yourself.
The next step is yours to take.  No one can take it for you.

And know this one thing:
I wish you love, joy, and peace... always.
You deserve no less...  you deserve every wonderful thing!
Especially peace.
I love you!



“You are now at a crossroads. 
This is your opportunity to make the most important decision you will ever make. 
Forget your past. 
Who are you now? 
Who have you decided you really are now? 
Don't think about who you have been. 
Who are you now? 
Who have you decided to become? 
Make this decision consciously. 
Make it carefully. 
Make it powerfully.”
~Anthony Robbins

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